Is he dating other girls

19-Oct-2015 03:15

We clicked immediately and have been seeing each other since then.We have been to concerts together, spent many nights together, planned a vacation next month, I have even met his family and they love me.

I noticed in his browser that there was a new saved link that was for OKCupid and I decided to click on it.

He also sent out an e-mail saying he was looking for a woman to wine and dine and possibly pleasure while he was away on business.

He has recently met women for drinks and has told me nothing of it and also told me many of nights we aren't together that he is just hanging out at home or playing music (he is in a band) and so forth.

I am so very confused and very hurt and just wanting advice.

I am very much in love with this guy and had planned a ton of nice things for his upcoming birthday as well as the vacation we are supposed to go on next month."Desiree, I feel your pain, and so, my answer will be quick and to the point: if he's not exclusively dating you and can't agree to it now, then it's time for you to take a huge step back.

I noticed in his browser that there was a new saved link that was for OKCupid and I decided to click on it.He also sent out an e-mail saying he was looking for a woman to wine and dine and possibly pleasure while he was away on business.He has recently met women for drinks and has told me nothing of it and also told me many of nights we aren't together that he is just hanging out at home or playing music (he is in a band) and so forth.I am so very confused and very hurt and just wanting advice.I am very much in love with this guy and had planned a ton of nice things for his upcoming birthday as well as the vacation we are supposed to go on next month."Desiree, I feel your pain, and so, my answer will be quick and to the point: if he's not exclusively dating you and can't agree to it now, then it's time for you to take a huge step back.My question is this: do you think he is just wanting his cake and to eat it too or do you really think he just wants to date around to make sure he is doing the right thing with me?